
As Humans we need some form of connection, a tangible link that marries our inner monologue with the outer dialogue of wider societal discourse. One of the most valid and important forms of connection is another human, someone who speaks to us, whose views we can subscribe to and are encoded in such a way that they are compatible with the operating system that is our very consciousness. Through these people we are able to reach out and experience and even immerse ourselves in topics and important issues that might otherwise be a closed system to us.
As an (I guess) middle-aged, white male, the subjects of feminism, race, inequality, social injustice, and many other issues which (for some at least given current circumstances) are ones that I am just not physically, emotionally or culturally equipped to ever be able to experience. How can I understand these? I can’t live them, no matter how far I dial up my WOKE-OMETER. My engagement in topics and areas such as these can only ever be at an intellectual level. I can read articles, listen to pod-casts, watch documentaries, speak to relevant actors in this tragedy that is human life – but I can never EXPERIENCE them myself given the current biased structure of our society. Even being intimately connected to those who can and do experience them – my reactions, my thoughts, feelings and outrage – they can only be born from a kind of self-centred reaction, how it makes ME feel to see THEM suffer, how it frustrates and angers ME, how I am powerless to help, act, affect change.
As humans, we are MALEABLE creations. Our minds retain some properties of neuroplasticity throughout our lives, no matter how old we are, no matter how ingrained our experiences, ideologies and pre-conceived notions are – we can always change. You’re never too old to LEARN, to be EDUCATED. But, in the very concrete absence of the ability to actually FEEL – no matter how well-intentioned, we cannot.
That’s where these HEROES come in. And there are so many of them. People who can speak to us, who can tell their story, to EDUCATE us in UNDERSTANDING what it’s like to FEEL. It’s not the same as FEELING ourselves, but it can be a very useful and relevant analogue, to sow the seeds of change and nurture them and help them BLOOM into tools which we CAN use to understand, which we CAN use to affect change. It is only in attempting to UNDERSTAND the nature of a thing that you can then begin to see the part YOU play in defining the parameters of that thing.
It doesn’t matter how removed you feel you are, how distant – there is no distance that is great enough that abstracts you far enough from a situation to the extent that your actions – or lack thereof – have no effect. According to Chaos Theory, they say “a butterfly flaps its wings in the Amazonian jungle, and subsequently a storm ravages half of Europe”. While inherently untrue from a cause-and-effect point of view, the sentiment behind it resonates true when re-framed against the “nothing to do with me, mate” mindset of cultural abstraction. Take the issues of race, or feminism as an example; it should be perfectly valid to say that one is anti-racist, or pro-women’s rights. Indeed, these should be the default-mode of a rational and informed mind – and I think that no matter how the wider media portray their take on the default-mode mindset of human nature, this is in actual fact just an amplification and an attempt at justifying a vocal minority for the sole purpose of gaining CLICKS.
The current ideological standard seems to be one of polarisation, which is a drum I have banged on many times before. We, as a global inter-connected society SEEM to require strict and perfect adherence to a rigid mindset where the margin for error is close to zero. The reality, however, is that with such complex psycho-social systems such as ours there is no such thing as BINARY. Be it the biological facts of sex, the overwhelming representation of political ideas being framed as left and right, or right and wrong – the REALITY is that everything can (and should) be viewed as a spectrum. There is no digital, reality is a fundamentally analogue construct and only appears digital when viewed from certain perspectives. It is through a lack of UNDERSTANDING and an inability to connect deeply with a thing and extrapolate upon these perspectives that they are taken out of context and stamped into peoples minds as a true and fair view on an objective reality. Then what you find is these views form the basis of a new subjective reality in ones mind and embed themselves to such a high affinity that they override the objective truths as defined by those who actually live them.
Only a HERO can break this fallacy, only an individual so fundamentally rooted in the ground-truth of a thing, one who has such mastery of the tools needed to articulate and re-frame the conversation in a way that resonates so strongly with the misinformed that it shatters their subjective reality to the core. These people, these HEROES are the real mechanisms of change. And they are everywhere, unheard voices just waiting for a platform on which they can be heard if we can but listen. So if you find one, shout it from the roof tops, help their message find an audience, no matter how small – for as they say, sometimes it just takes one butterfly to change the world.


